Everybody does things that may irritates each other... just whether you wanna learn to 'bao rong'. Keep nagging may cause the situation to turn worse... and not bothering at all to show that you've already given up hope... itz even worse...
it may not be just this or that... sometime in life... itz not that simple... you have to work out your brain more... to be able to get the best solution to solve things... You too have things that i couldn't stand... but i still tried different ways to overcome it...
Sometime... itz not about how a guy treat a girl before and after he won her heart... but how both of them maintain the relationship together.... Learn to accept or change each other wisely and patiently....If i'm such person... i would have left you long ago...
What i did that disappointed you was the bad habit that i had and i'm trying hard to change... itz really not easy to push myself to go to the gym alone after a day work but i still did and swimming alone in the dark swimming pool is also not fun... but i'm still doing it... and what you did that disappointed mi is the hurting words of what you always said... leaving scars in my heart.... eg. (when will my real prince charming appear?) (how good it will be if i'm not with you... i'll be so carefree).If you hear things like this from mi... i can guarantee that your heart will ache as much too.... =( I noe the life out there is fun and we're still young.. and we can enjoy like what Si ping is doing now... but u really want that kind of life? I wonder...
I really don't wish to do things that will make you nag... and u know i don't like it... so i will not do those in purpose to make you do things that i don't like to see or hear? Of course not.. I can onli feel bad... i wanted to apologise... but when u started nagging... i refused to... mutual reaction
To keep a relationship strong is really not as easy as you think my dear... Even if someone appears to be a prince charming stands in front of u... as time goes by... you will discover his weakness... you will still nag and nag... quarrel and bicker... or even worse... cos nobody is perfect... until then... you will look forward to the next prince charming....
Is your life really that unbearable and tortured? Will it really get better if u change it? *Think* Thatz what i always do to keep my mind strong...
